Theo and I never do things or start important events in our life the way you are “supposed to”. We tend to always have a story or an interesting twist to each significant moment in our lives together. I am not sure if we do it on purpose but good or bad these events always work out and always make great stories. This story is called,
“The time we went to Mexico to get married and forgot the Dress”
I know, I know. I can see your face now. Sure, I’m joking and sure I’m not talking about “the dress”.
It’s true, in the chaos of planning and making sure I had everything I needed for the wedding day, I left my wedding dress carefully draped over the chair in my front room, next to the door. So we were on our way to Mexico, dress-less.
My new hubby, being the absolute superhero he is in times of crisis, immediately sprung to action. When I realized I didn’t have it, we were pulling into the Calgary airport. Theo emailed our friends (one of whom was my bridesmaid) explained the situation then paid the cab to take our house keys to them so they could bring the dress when they came, a few days later. This was all before we checked into the airport. His parents were with us and asked, ‘how he could trust the guy to do this and not rob us’? Theo calmly replied that the cabbie could have everything in the house as long as he took the keys to Nick and Lindsay’s so they could get the dress. Before our plane took off, Theo had spoken to Nick and they had the dress. I was still a mess but was able to start to calm down, because my hubby saved the day.
What came next I couldn’t have dreamed of. We arrived in Mexico, were welcomed by 85 of our closest family and friends and witnessed something pretty amazing that had worried us for years. Our lives had collided – East met West. Friends and family from opposite sides of the country introducing themselves, making new friends, new memories, families welcoming new members. It was amazing! It was the best week of our lives. We’ve never felt more loved.
This all happened before my dress arrived.
I’ve heard so many brides talk about things going wrong on their big day. How they weren’t able to see past it. Wedding songs being wrong, seating charts not going right. Don’t get my wrong – when you’re planning a wedding and things go wrong it’s really upsetting. You spend a long time stressing over every detail.
But when we arrived at the resort and were surrounded by so much love, by so many people spending a lot of money, and taking a lot of time to come spend our special day with us, you forget about anything that could go wrong and focus on why you’re there in the first place. Every person reminded me of a special moment in my and Theo’s relationship. Some people only knew us when we were kids and some only as adults. But they all wanted to be there to watch us exchange vows.
It made the idea of things going wrong for the special day, even something huge like forgetting the dress, seem like a much less important event.
With that being said, it’s now time for a drink!
This was our signature drink for the wedding (which they forgot to serve – ha!)
- In a glass, add the Sugar, Lime Juice, and Mint.
- Muddle together in the glass
- Add the cucumber, rum, and club soda, some ice. and a lime wedge on the rim.
This is a delicious drink!
10 comments
This made me laugh and cry. Beautifully written from such a beautiful bride…a daughter to be very proud of! Congratulations to you both and may marriage bring great joy, love and passion in your life together. Thank you Michelle for sharing your daughter’s day with us. I am really enjoying following your blog which has been for about a month. I am not one to leave a comment but, this time I just had to…love your recipes but, I especially enjoy reading your eloquently written family stories. xo
Thank you Gail – lovely to hear!
I have always said that the most attractive thing about a man is when he shows his love for his wife. Sweet couple Michelle. You must be over the moon happy for both. Love your stories and if I could cook without causing a major crisis, I would follow your recipes as well.
You are hilarious! You’re right though – I am over the moon. xo
beautiful thoughts from a beautiful girl <3
xo
Every detail is true, I have never witnessed more love and not the gushy kind that you see in bad rom-coms. We all witnessed the true deep love they have for each other and all the love their guest have for them. From my husband and my perspective Meaghan was a calm and beautiful bride that really seemed to enjoy the day and Theo was stoic and calm as always. I believe that Meaghan and Theo inspired all of this because of who they are, they are loyal, giving, selfless and considerate people which is not something you see often enough. In a pinch, whether you need to build your son a playground in the snow the day before his birthday and have no tools and it is 9:00 am on Saturday or take your son for a few nights while you are in labour, they are always the people you would call and. They will never make you feel bad, in fact they even bring food, really good food! They inspire me and my husband to be better people and we are better for knowing them. Thank you for a funny story and giving me a way to say thank you to both Meaghan and Theo and of course Meaghan’s mom Michelle! It was a pleasure getting to know all of you better! As a mom of two little ones I hope I can do half as well as Michelle has done.
To life, love and Friendship!
Hi Maeghan, I love the way you spell your name, by the way! You captured the essence of our holiday together. Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts. xo
Beautiful story and well told. Having photographed a few destination weddings, I must tell you that this very thing happens more often than you might believe!! Meaghan does a splendid job bringing light to what matters most. xo
Hi Kelly, She’s been a wise little girl all her life…an old soul